We have an international chain of coffee shops here in WNY..(Canada/Us)....the overwhelming majority of their business is done through their drive up windows...they do an amazing job of keeping the line moving,,it;s not unusual to see 10 cars or more in line...I frequent this particular location daily..(sometimes twice a day)....I get the same thing every morning.(over 10 years running).medium coffee /light cream... they are efficient and cordial...until today...I placed my usual order...when I got to the window I asked for an extra empty cup...(I use it as an ash tray for my cigars)...the girl politely gave me my coffee..and the extra cup...(so far so good)...to which I replied thank you my dear...well...as you can imagine she exploded..I'M NOT YOUR DEAR..AND DONT EVER ADDRESS ME LIKE THAT AGAIN.....generally I ignore these things and drive away....I pulled in went to the counter and asked for the manager...the mgr. is a woman who has served me for years...I asked if she recognized me..she said only from coming in here for years...I recounted what happened...and told her...the waitress was right...she's not my dear..and now I am NO LONGER your customer...I used the phrase as a term of endearment for her accommodating me...In no way was it used in a derogatory or demeaning sense....I realize my 2.70/5.40 purchase a day means nothing...to me it the principle ..I'm not gonna be tongue lashed by some minimum wage teenage misfit who thinks the customer...(any customer) has an obligation to insure she's not offended...I never waited for a response from the manager...I turned and walked out...
There are too many narcissistic people, who planted many weed seeds years ago! Now we a huge group of entiled young people who can't think about anything but THEMSELVES. Of course their parents don't get it and some encourage it!
Too much is wrong with our Country, due to lack of understanding of what respect means, or mere politeness and how good manners is part of the job. They don't understand a long time customer helps makes their paycheck.
All this BS that Cancel culture has started is so overgrown!
I like to go to Dunkin Donuts now and then, for a coffee and bagel. The people in there are from Pakistan and one guy from NYC. I pull up and they always have a smile on their face! There are some who reconize me and ask me about whichever vehicle I'm driving. They always finish with "have a nice day"
The line is always long there. Service with a smile, politenes and the purchase is always checked before it is given out. Then a polite exchange goes back and forth.
@1971demon, can you imagine we are on a Hellcat forum and you are being told how to spend your money? It's coffee....not Weed, Not Alcohol, Not a bunch of car parts......just a cup of coffee and you expect the same courtesy, that you give to your customers.